Boundaries
Technology companies see “sleep” as a competitor. They are not looking out for your best interest.
All posts tagged: Monday Musings
Extraordinary People Hidden in Plain Sight
Last week was difficult. The horrific shooting on Saturday at the Tree of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh shook many of us to the core. Coming at the end of a week of attempts at mass political assassinations, it called into question assumptions about our nation’s values. As a historian I know that anti-Semitism and bigotry are as old as our country, in fact as old as recorded history. Thankfully, stories of courageous response to bigotry are just as old, yet often not as well known. The Overlooked Obituary project of the New York Times is designed to recognize extraordinary people overlooked by the editors of the paper in their day. People like Rose Zar, the remarkable mother of my National Trust colleague Howard Zar. Rose Zar’s overlooked obituary appeared in the Times on the anniversary of her death in the Jewish lunar calendar. That happened to fall during this past week, bringing a story of hope and determination amidst a flood of bad news. When she was 19 and living in the ghetto in Piotrkow, …
To avoid stress, stop screwing up
Thinking about ways to set up our lives so that we have a realistic chance to succeed.
Perseverance and passion
MacArthur genius grant recipient Angela Duckworth has the perfect response to those who once told her, “You know, you’re no genius.”
An education in the obvious
In the midst of one of the most turbulent weeks in our recent civic life, I attended the play Lincolnesque last Saturday at Washington’s Keegan Theatre. First released in 2009, this new production couldn’t have come at a better time. Here’s the synopsis: “Leo has more on his plate than he can handle. He is a speechwriter for an endangered mediocre Congressman, in the final month before a do-or-die mid-term election. His new boss Carla is a dominating message maven who has been brought in from the corporate world to try and save the campaign. And his brother Francis is a psychiatric outpatient recently released from St. Elizabeth’s Hospital, despite having a powerful delusion that he is Abraham Lincoln. Desperate for inspiration, Leo turns to Francis for help writing “Lincolnesque” speeches, hoping that Lincoln’s transformative oratory will revive his boss’s career.” Playwright John Strand uses humor and plot twists to bring Leo and Carla to the point of stealing Francis’ “Lincolnesque” citations for the final campaign speech that puts the Congressman over the top. The …
Good Trouble
Congressman John Lewis is a hero to many. A hero whose skull was cracked more than fifty years ago while working for justice. So in June when he sent out the following on his twitter account, it was a message worth hearing that day and every day: “Do not get lost in a sea of despair. Be hopeful, be optimistic. Our struggle is not the struggle of a day, a week, a month, or a year, it is the struggle of a lifetime. Never, ever be afraid to make some noise and get in good trouble, necessary trouble.” Lewis wasn’t calling for a “don’t worry, be happy” type of response to the issues of our times. Instead he knows—from more than five decades in the trenches—that despair creates apathy, and apathy destroys activism. One activist who was in Lewis’ training camps in Mississippi in 1964 notes that “Giving in to despair is lazy surrender.” A few years ago, when the National Trust conference was held in Nashville, John Lewis challenged us to believe in the …
Life is not a rehearsal
Guitar great Tommy Emmanuel reminds us that we need to get on with life!
Better Living Through (Better) Email
Virtually everyone I know in the working world believes there are too many emails and too many meetings. Yes, I know, this isn’t exactly breaking news. I’m fascinated by our love/hate relationship with emails. We all get too many emails, and yet we inevitably send them out and contribute to the clogged up boxes of our colleagues. I’m exhibit A in that regard. While I fume at times about the quality (or lack of quality) and the volume of emails, I send out an email to my colleagues like clockwork on Monday morning.* How can we use email more effectively to make our lives easier? First, to state the obvious the only effective email is one that is read. Thankfully, the internet is full of great suggestions as to how to tailor your email messages to be effective. When I’m writing I try—but don’t always succeed—in getting to the point, in making good use of the subject line, and in trying not to overcommunicate. I think how we write is important. But how we manage …
The important part of fishing
For many years I’ve been fascinated by the prospect of fly fishing. Watching a perfect cast — with rod and line all moving in synchronized motion set in the midst of a swiftly moving river nestled among rugged mountains — encapsulates for me beauty, artfulness, peacefulness, and all that’s right with the world. Trying my hand at fly fishing has long been on my bucket list and last month I finally had the opportunity. Were my casts perfect? Far from it. Did I catch any fish? Nope, even though I had a bite or two. Did I get to spend about 3 hours in one of the most beautiful settings I’ve ever seen, experiencing moments of utter wonder and peacefulness? Absolutely. Given the importance I place on our work to save Nashville’s Music Row, you won’t be surprised that I know of a country song that has a take on what’s important about fishing. The first verse goes like this: “The important part of fishin’ ain’t the fish, but the fishing. The important part of …
He sows hurry and reaps indigestion
Labor Day is seen by many as the start of a new year. School begins for teachers and children. The summer break is over and schedules ramp up. Everywhere we look we’re called upon to pick up the pace. In this day and age, work/life balance is a major theme of Harvard Business Review articles, TED Talks, HR seminars, and more. We may think this is a new phenomenon, arising from the astonishing leaps in technology which work 24/7 even if we aren’t capable—as humans—of keeping up. But the question has been around for a much longer period of time than just the 21st century. A colleague and I were discussing the need for her direct reports—who have major responsibilities and work very hard at their jobs—to take time off. She mentioned that one individual told her that he had not taken a vacation because “the place couldn’t run without me.” I smiled and suggested that she pass along the advice I heard from my grandmother, who liked to say, “The graveyard is full of …
