Attitudes are important in so many aspects of work and life. Some people complain because there are thorns on roses, while others praise thorns for having roses among them. My grandmother, who I quote frequently, use to say that “Some folks are born in the objective mood.” Grandmother did not have a lot of patience with people who were always complaining and objecting to what others did. Both she and my Grandfather—and their son, my father—always had a positive outlook and attitude toward people.
In David McCullough’s The American Spirit, he speaks of the impact our attitudes have on others. “Everyone who’s ever lived,” he notes, “has been affected, changed, shaped, helped, or hindered by others.” He then quotes Margaret McFarland, a professor of child psychology, who says that “attitudes aren’t taught, they’re caught.” Speaking of teachers, McCullough notes that “if the teacher has enthusiasm for the subject at hand, the student catches that.” McFarland adds, “Show them what you love.”
Last week I spent time at three of the National Trust’s New York-area historic sites—The Glass House, Lyndhurst, and Kykuit. All three have seen recent increases in important metrics like attendance, revenue, grants, programming, and media mentions. The evolution of those three sites toward more relevance with their local communities and the nation at large was the subject of a discussion with our trustees. I would suggest that one of the most important changes that has taken place at each of these landmarks is that of attitude. Given a forward-looking vision and the permission to bring new ideas to the forefront, the staff and volunteer enthusiasm for “showing what you love” comes through in spades at each of these special places. Our trustees and guests saw that on display all weekend.
Each of us can be a teacher. And each of us can help others catch an enthusiastic attitude about the things we love.
Have a good week.
More to come…