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The past and future of one weird rodent

When we imagine streams in North America, “chances are we envision water rippling over stones as it follows a groove.”

While an accurate description, it is also a sign of an unhealthy riverine system.

For that is a stream without beavers.

Beaverland: How One Weird Rodent Made America (2022) by Leila Philip is a fascinating look at the one animal, besides humans, that has an inordinate impact on their environment. “Only beavers and humans dramatically alter the landscape to create the environment they need (or want).” Philip came to her fascination with the weird rodent that scientists dub “ecosystem engineers” when she discovered a group of beavers in a pond near her home in Connecticut. Day after day she would visit the pond with her dog and observe them as they worked tirelessly to shape the environment that they wanted. When they disappeared, she was crushed by the loss and became determined to find out more about these creatures. We are all the richer for her exploration.

Philip is a delightful storyteller, blending history and science in a way that brings both to life. She quickly makes it clear how important beavers are to a healthy environment. Wetlands are “a soup of life,” and water from beaver-altered streams and wetlands “has been measured to contain fifteen times more plankton and other microbial life than wetlands without beavers.” All kinds of animals visit beaver ponds, building a rich tapestry of biodiversity.

Under Philip’s guidance we learn how John Jacob Astor, arriving as a young immigrant from Germany with the clothes on his back and little else, bought and sold beaver pelt to satisfy Europe’s craving for beaver hats, building a monopoly in the fur trade and becoming America’s first multimillionaire in the process. One of the more delightfully titled books in the growing genre of pro-beaver literature of which Beaverland is only the most recent example is aptly named Once They Were Hats.

Philip takes us on the trapline of a local New England animal trapper and then to fur sales in the U.S. and Canada to help understand the perspective of those who still legally trap, skin, and sell beaver skins. She then moves into explorations of the lives and eccentricities of earlier writers obsessed with nature’s engineers, none more so than Dorothy Richards — the “Beaver Lady” — who established a sanctuary around her home in Little Falls, New York, named Beaversprite. Richards is best known for allowing beavers to live in her house, up to 14 at one time, and being photographed with one of her favorites at a dining room table set with tablecloth and china. But Richards and others kept the story and hope of beavers alive in a time when they were generally seen as nuisances to be exterminated.

It is the chapters with scientists and conservationists that turn Beaverland from mere interesting story to a serious call to consider the opportunity offered by the animal’s role in helping rebuild our broken environment. She tells us that before colonization there were somewhere between 60 million and 400 million beavers in North America. The forests were still being shaped by beavers and the continent was known as Beaverland. Now the estimates are around 6 million in existence in the U.S. and Canada. She shows how beavers exhibit geospatial understanding that allows them to build efficiently and effectively to achieve their purpose, which is to create large, complex water environments where many species can thrive.

Rivers are the hydraulic system that keeps everything on earth alive, and the systems beavers build work with the natural desire of streams of water to shift and change. Which is why if you see water rippling off stones as it trips down a groove, you can know that beavers are not around. Waterways engineered by beavers include ponds, meadows (with water just below the surface), dams (lots of dams), canals between ponds, and so much more. Oh, and engineers in Milwaukee found that beavers can create water storage at least 100 times cheaper than an engineering project. The head of Ecotone, Inc. is quoted by Philip as saying that a project they built for more than $1 million could have been built by beavers for zero dollars…if the client had allowed them to use their preferred approach.

Philip is in the pro-beaver camp but she also covers a number of issues from those who continue to see the animals primarily as a nuisance that cause flooding and cut down trees (very efficiently it turns out) to those who believe in some utopian vision of nature where dams don’t exist. And she quotes scientists, conservationists, and engineers who believe almost all the problems that those who push back against the reintroduction of beavers can — and have, in fact — been solved…except for that one problem of large engineering and wetland restoration contractors losing very lucrative contracts.

In the chapter entitled Thinking Like a Watershed, Philip quotes Scott McGill, founder of the visionary environmental restoration company Ecotone whose work is primarily focused on the massive Chesapeake Bay watershed. Proud to be known as the “beaver whisperer,” McGill thinks it is a tragedy that beavers “are part of our history, but not part of our culture.” As Philip shows in this terrific work, we need to work quickly to right that wrong, while we still have time.

More to come…

DJB


This Weekly Reader features Beaverland, which joins a series of mind-expanding and life-enriching books I’ve read over the past few years to help me understand more of the effects of climate change, the deep damage that has come from man’s impact on the earth, and some of the nature-based historical solutions that exist. Books such as


Image by Graham Hobster from Pixabay

The enduring nature of America’s original sin

The time was just after the 2016 election. I was attending a conference where white progressives were apoplectic in their concern over what the country had just done in electing Donald Trump to the presidency. Two older African American friends, both giants in our field, had a less emotional reaction.

They were, of course, concerned about what was to come. But they were not in the least bit surprised at the white community’s feeling of doom and subsequent backlash against the election of the nation’s first African American president. Martin Luther King, Jr., whose legacy we celebrate this weekend, said that the country’s race problem “grows out of the…need that some people have to feel superior. A need that some people have to feel…that their white skin ordained them to be first.”*

The families and ancestors of my two friends had always dealt with adversity in this land of opportunity. It went along with being black in America. They never gave up hope, but they also never sugar-coated the past or expressed giddy optimism about a post-racial future. If they moved forward and kept working in the midst of the sustained historical oppression they faced, then their unspoken message to the white progressives was that persevering was the least we could do from our positions of privilege.

I thought about that moment as well as Dr. King’s never-ending fight for justice as I read The Cruelty is the Point: Why Trump’s America Endures (2022) by journalist Adam Serwer. The past, present, and future of Trump’s America was the original subtitle, because this book is not just about 2016-2021. Instead, Serwer, a biracial Jewish American, takes the reader back through the unvarnished history that made Donald Trump and today’s cruelty possible while looking ahead at where we may go as a nation.

This is a hard book, almost dark at times, that highlights the challenges and failures to live up to our ideals at least as much as it celebrates the progress that has been made. And that’s probably as it should be. An 1894 quote from journalist Ida B. Wells opens the work and sets forward Serwer’s key thesis of the wide gap between our belief in the ideals of racial equality and our support for policies and actions that would put it into practice.

The negro still hopes that some day the United States will become as great intellectually and morally as she is materially, to protect and honor all her citizens regardless of “race, color, or previous condition,” and thus make her professions a living reality.

Many on the right push back against this perspective. While the mainstream media dismisses claims of widespread racism among Trump’s supporters, Serwer notes, “Millions of people of color in the United States live a reality that many white Americans find unfathomable; the unfathomable is not the impossible.”

Fourteen essays that were originally published in The Atlantic, each with a new introduction, make up this powerful book that calls us to remember the history that really happened in place of the one we tell ourselves happened.

Serwer repeatedly shows how white Americans have professed a belief in racial equality while pointedly declining to put the necessary laws and policies in place to see it to fruition, what the social scientists call the “principle-implementation gap.” Perhaps most disturbingly for white readers, he demonstrates time after time how cruelty and violence have been the chosen tools for maintaining our place on the top rung of society’s ladder.

The most-read piece he’s ever written gave the book its name. It was conceived in 2018 after he “saw the President of the United States use a woman who had come forward with an allegation of sexual assault as a laugh line.” Serwer writes that it took him time to wrap his head around the fact that “the president enjoyed hurting people in ways large and small, and that many of his supporters enjoyed it when he hurt people.” As Serwer says many times throughout this book, this is not simply an ethos but a policy decision.

He writes about the pictures and postcards showing grinning white men standing around the half-naked and mutilated bodies of lynching victims in the 20th century and ties that to the spectacle of cruel laughter heard throughout the Trump era. Taking joy in suffering is “more human that most would like to admit,” asserts Serwer.

And it isn’t incoherent.

It reflects a clear principle: Only the president and his allies, his supporters and their anointed are entitled to the rights and protections of the law and, if necessary, immunity from it. The rest of us are entitled only to cruelty, by their whim.

White vigilantes burn down the black newspaper in Wilmington, NC, during the 1898 race riots (public domain)

Serwer’s essays on Reconstruction’s real history, including how democratically elected multi-racial governments were violently overthrown with the acquiescence of white Northerners, set the stage for Trump and January 6th. His examinations of the relationships between blacks and Jews are educational and enlightening. He hammers home the many lies we tell ourselves as a country to continue to support a white, male hierarchy.

At the center of today’s history is the former president.

Trump’s only true skill is the con; his only fundamental belief is that the United States is the birthright of straight, white, Christian men; and his only real, authentic pleasure is in cruelty.

This cruelty has been around long before Trump. Serwer asserts it will continue to exist in some form well into the future until that time that America comes to support the policies that would protect those Trump and his supporters hate and fear: “immigrants, black voters, feminists, and treasonous white men who empathize with any of those who would steal their birthright.”

More to come…

DJB


*I recommend Heather Cox Richardson‘s letter on the heroism of Dr. King as well as Hajar Yazdiha writing about conservative revisionism of Dr. King’s words and life work.


(Image: During the Tulsa race riots in 1921, more than 1,200 black businesses and homes were destroyed at the hands of white residents. Bettmann Archive/Getty Images)

Feels like freedom

Singer-songwriter Ruthie Foster has a voice that can bring down the house, “coupled with a songwriting ability that cuts straight to the truth of life’s big issues.” With her Texas blues-Americana sound, the Austin-based Foster has flown under the radar for many years, but with a string of Grammy nominations and a new album, she’s continuing to inspire fans old and new.

Ruthie Foster (credit: RuthieFoster.com)

I’m featuring Foster on the Saturday Soundtrack for the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday weekend as she is one of today’s bright stars still building on the traditions of gospel, soul, blues and folk music that fueled the civil-rights movement of the 1950s and 60s. The MLK holiday is always a good time to think back and look forward.

The Grammy-nominated 2020 album Ruthie Foster’s Big Band Live at the Parmount is a great place to jump into Foster’s more recent work and begin the weekend.

Woke Up This Morning, a freedom song created in 1961 from the old gospel favorite I woke up this morning with my mind stayed on Jesus, is one of many similar tunes used during the civil-rights movement. The song was written by The Rev. Robert Wesby of Aurora, Illinois, who sang it in the Hinds County, Mississippi, jail after his arrest and incarceration during the Freedom Rides. Foster takes us to church and to the streets with her powerful version.

Joy Comes Back, which Foster recorded in 2017, is a song by the Staple Singers, who first came to prominence in the civil-rights era. Here are two versions, the first a simple arrangement where her powerful voice rises and falls over an acoustic guitar. Then Joy Comes Back gets the big band treatment from the Paramount performance. Both are superb.

Two additional performances from the Paramount session harken back to the gospel roots that were so important to the music of the movement. Death Came a Knockin’ is one powerful arrangement, with a wild guitar solo stuck in the middle for good measure. Better lace up those shoes! Brand New Day is a Foster original that draws on the gospel sound (and includes an intro from her daughter).

Healing Time is Foster’s newest album, and it seems appropriate after all the trials the nation has gone through over the last several years. This is what she does as an artist.

“I hear fans tell me that the music we make is very spiritually healing,” she says. “The experience of dealing with my own grief after losing a band member a year before the pandemic while navigating around zoom school with my daughter and trying to figure out what to do with myself was tough but necessary. When I look at it as a whole it was all very healing for me which is pretty much how I try to live my life. There’s always time for healing, if you give it time.”

Feels Like Freedom by songwriters Adrianne Gonzalez and Joanna Jones is from the new album.

The sun is comin’ up again
Those winds of change are blowin’ in I know
Yes, I know
It feels like freedom

Been a long and lonely road
But I’m finally comin’ home And oh
Oh yeah
It feels like freedom

The album’s “burst-of-sunshine” title track really rocks while Don’t Want to Give up on You is also a song of commitment and healing from the new album.

Healing Time is ultimately a work that explores such extremes as being human often brings to the surface, reminding listeners that even when we feel like we’re at the top, we’re ultimately still finding our way—a beautiful reflection of the essence of living itself.

Ruthie Foster is also a unique interpreter of well-known songs by other iconic songwriters. Here are four examples: Ring of Fire, the Johnny Cash hit, written by June Carter Cash and Merle Kilgore; Chris Stapleton‘s What are you listening to; Use Me from that leader of the progressive-soul movement Bill Withers; and Stephen Foster‘s Oh Susannah.

I first heard Foster in her duet with Bonnie Raitt on the John Prine tune Angel from Montgomery. Prine wrote this as a 21-year-old and Raitt has been singing the hell out of it for almost half a century. Here she does it “for Molly Ivins, for Ann Richards.”

Foster takes a verse at the 2:50 mark and then adds beautiful harmony — all without ever rehearsing with Raitt or the band. Because, as Bonnie says, “that woman right there’s got the stuff!” Listen to Foster sing the line, “How the hell can a person, go to work in the morning, come home in the evening, and have nothing to say?” and understand that she connects on so many levels to the blues in this folk classic.

Perfect.

Enjoy the music of Ruthie Foster as you remember the life and work of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. this weekend.

More to come…

DJB


For other MLK Weekend Saturday Soundtracks see Mavis Staples (2020); I’m on my way (2021); and Live, learn, listen, laugh, love (2022).


Image of freedom singers from the Mississippi Civil Rights Museum

In some cases, it is obvious who committed the crime

I am getting my plot lines and characters mixed up as I binge watch the most recent season of Shetland while reading Agatha Christie.

Blame it on the pandemic.

Not being a big puzzle-person, I was never a fan of murder mysteries. Oh, there was the occasional game of Clue where you move around the board and collect information, all so the winner can eventually identify the killer, the place, and the weapon: “I suspect Colonel Mustard, in the library, with the candlestick.” However, I seldom paid attention to detective stories or murder mysteries. Until 2020.

The pandemic affected all of us in various ways, and one of our earliest responses to lockdown was to binge watch British murder mysteries on PBS. In no time at all we were immersed in priest detectives (Father Brown, Grantchester) and female detectives (Miss Fisher, Miss Scarlet & the Duke, Frankie Drake), all playing against cultural norms for their eras. We also sampled others from the genre. It was a small leap to books of crime stories and murder mysteries and last year I stuck my toe in the water, reading Raven Black and Lemon.

Then at Thanksgiving, our friend Oakley Pearson gave our puzzle-loving son Andrew an entire box of Agatha Christie mysteries. I dove in and decided to read at least one murder mystery a month, my self-proclaimed year of reading dangerously. It seemed appropriate, given the national discussions of 2023.

Which is how I came to devour the classic Agatha Christie mystery And Then There Were None (1939) last week.

What do you say about the best-selling crime novel of all time, and the book that made Christie the best-selling novelist of all time (her books trail only the Bible and Shakespeare in sales)? Not much, other than to suggest that even if you’ve read it before and know the general story line, it holds up on repeated readings.

The plot is a delicious puzzle that begins as ten strangers arrive on an island invited by the mysterious U.N. Owen (or is that UNKNOWN). Each — including a reckless playboy, a troubled doctor, an elderly yet formidable judge, a detective, an unscrupulous mercenary, a God-fearing spinster, two servants, a highly decorated general, and an anxious secretary — has a dark secret and a crime to hide. One by one they are picked off, with copies of an ominous nursery rhyme hanging in each room suggesting the awful fates of those who are left. There is no one else on the island, so who, exactly, is the murderer?

In 1972, Agatha Christie was asked to name her top ten books. The response as to the top choice is telling but not surprising:

And Then There Were None — a difficult technique which was a challenge and so I enjoyed it, and I think dealt with it satisfactorily.

One reason that Christie’s famous novel works is the focus on accountability for unsolved crimes. That makes crime novels perfect reading given the landscape we face in 2023.

Accountability — if we are fortunate — will be an important theme this year.

Not all blockbuster crime stories are fiction, of course. Many are based on true cases. With that in mind, one other book I’ll be reading may end up being the most influential work of the genre: Final Report of the Select Committee to Investigate the January 6th Attack on the U.S. Capitol.

For those who don’t want to wade through 800+ pages, former federal prosecutor Joyce Vance has prepared a useful summary to help readers understand the report, with comments around accountability, transcripts, and witness tampering. And distinguished historian Timothy Snyder (author of On Tyranny) has helpfully listed the key facts arising from the report, including the damning 15th and last in his list:

Even had Trump believed that he had won the 2020 election, which he did not, his coup attempt would remain a coup attempt, and his crimes would remain crimes. 

All of a sudden it hit me. The January 6th’s committee report, organized as a narrative to address each major step that eventually led to the attack, makes the compelling case that the crimes — including the killing of Capitol police officers — were led by the lifetime con man, while he was in the Oval Office, using his bully pulpit.

The old Clue structure works pretty well in this instance.

We’re going to be dealing with the implications of these crimes well beyond 2023. Might as well read up and get ready for it.

More to come…

DJB


This Weekly Reader features links to recent articles, blog posts, or books that grabbed my interest or tickled my fancy. I hope you find something that makes you laugh, think, or cry. 


Photo of Agatha Christie novels by Jeremy Horvatin on Unsplash. Photo of U.S. Capitol from Pixabay.

I love the pithy proverb – Volume 7

My love for the short and to-the-point adage comes from my grandmother, who died 42 years ago on this week. Known to favor sayings such as “The graveyard is full of folks who thought the world couldn’t get along without them,” Grandmother Brown had a big influence on my life as well as my love for words.

Late in 2019, a series of pithy proverbs — those bursts of truth in 20 words or so — debuted on the blog and were brought together in a post entitled More to Consider.* Four years later I’m still at it. Let’s look at I love the pithy proverb — Volume 7 to see what made it to the More to Consider segment over the past six months.


Remember what’s really important

Omaha Beach, Normandy
Omaha Beach, Normandy

The horrific and life-threatening injury to pro-football player Damar Hamlin last week pointed to the many problems plaguing today’s NFL, not the least of which is that the NFL apparently wanted to restart the game after a five-minute break but was stopped by players acting in solidarity.

I don’t watch pro football (see here, here, and here). Nonetheless, it is a good time to for all of us to recall the great reminder from longtime Buffalo Bills coach Marv Levy:

No game is a must-win. World War II was a must-win.

Marv Levy

Look to the past to understand the present and build a better future

David McCullough at work from his Facebook page.

Besides a fondness for words, Grandmother nurtured my love of history and reading. She would have agreed with David McCullough — the esteemed historian who died in August — on why history is important.

A sense of history is an antidote to self-pity and self-importance.

David McCullough

Not all readers are leaders but all leaders are readers.

Harry S Truman

Of course, not every story in our memory — especially those we tell on ourselves — is historic. Or even true!

Some of those stories might be true, but most of them probably aren’t. I get better every year. That’s the one good part about getting old.

Football legend Otto Graham

Do what you say and love what you do

Tool by free pictures from Pixabay

Many people — obscure and famous alike — have commented on the importance of a meaningful vocation in our lives.

What one does is what counts, not what one had the intention of doing.

Pablo Picasso

It is the lucky person who gets up in the morning, puts both feet on the floor, knows what they are about to do, and thinks it still matters.

Joseph R. Biden, Sr., father to President Joe Biden

A vocation is a conversation between our physical bodies, our work, our intellects and imaginations.

David Whyte

Our human task is to acknowledge the fullness of things

This landscape of “mountains” and “valleys” speckled with glittering stars is actually the edge of a nearby, young, star-forming region called NGC 3324, captured in infrared light by NASA’s new James Webb Space Telescope. Image Credit: (NASA, ESA, CSA, and STScI)

The fullness of life is something that philosophers, theologians, and queens (apparently) think about all the time.

The edge of things is a liminal space—a holy place or, as the Celts called it, “a thin place.” Most of us have to be taught how to live there.

Richard Rohr

We are all visitors to this time, this place. We are just passing through. Our purpose here is to observe, to learn, to grow, to love… and then we return home.

An Aboriginal proverb quoted by Queen Elizabeth II in 2011

Life is about discovering the right questions more than having the right answers.

Richard Rohr

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.

Crossed fingers by Peter Timmerhuse at Pixabay

Maya Angelou famously suggested that people will show us who they are, if we only pay attention. In today’s world we have seen too many on the political right who are showing us again-and-again that they simply don’t want to try and understand the truth, whether it be because of power, money, fear, or the convenience of a crutch.

There is none so blind as those who will not see.

John Heywood

It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends on his not understanding it.

Upton Sinclair

Nothing is more desirable than to be released from an affliction, but nothing is more frightening than to be divested of a crutch.

James Baldwin

[Humanity’s] capacity for justice makes democracy possible; but [humanity’s] inclination to injustice makes democracy necessary.

Reinhold Niebuhr

There is a better way. The late Senator Paul Wellstone lived his life showing us of his belief in the power of democracy to support the common good.

We all do better when we all do better.

Paul Wellstone

An attitude of gratitude

Grandmother and Granddaddy Brown on their wedding day (Brown family archives)

Grandmother believed in saying thank you, as it helped instill an attitude of gratitude, understanding that we all depend on others. And as a Bible-believing Baptist, she certainly quoted Jesus of Nazareth just about every day.

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Jesus of Nazareth

Gratitude is not only the greatest of the virtues, but the parent of all others.

Cicero

I’ll leave you with my personal pithy proverb, which is life rule #1:

Be grateful. Be thankful. Be compassionate. Every day.

More to come…

DJB


*To capture some of my favorite sayings I created a feature on More to Come that I labeled “More to Consider.” I update these quick bursts of truth every couple of weeks. After the initial More to Consider post pulling together the first group highlighted, I brought out Volume 2: A plethora of pithy proverbs followed with Volume 3: A profusion of pithy proverbs and Volume 4: A plentitude of pithy proverbs. I finally turned to the Super Bowl system (minus the pretentious Roman numerals) with I love the pithy proverb — Volume 5 and Volume 6.


Image of drinking glasses from Pixabay.

Thoughtful and inclusive leadership

Thoughtfulness, inclusion, and kindness are traits we too often dismiss when searching for leaders. Aggressive command-and-control types, pushing forward with a singular vision for the future, fit the leadership stereotype we’ve been taught to admire.

In fact, life’s path is seldom so simple.

Sometimes you have to turn your back on your goal to get there, sometimes you’re farthest away when you’re closest, sometimes the only way is the long one.  After the careful walking and looking down [at the labyrinth], the stillness of arrival was deeply moving.

Rebecca Solnit, Wanderlust

Certain rules and morals of undertaking the symbolic walking of a labyrinth came to mind during a December trip to Wilmington, Delaware. I’ve reflected on those truths over the past few weeks in a variety of contexts, but especially in terms of leadership.

We were in Wilmington for a family trip which took us to Christ Church Christiana Hundred for an afternoon concert of Handel’s Messiah. As is our custom, we arose on Sunday morning to attend church, and it was there, in what is clearly a lively and engaged faith community, that I saw thoughtful servant leadership in action.

The winter sun glistens off the steeple at Christ Church Christiana Hundred

The buildings, grounds, gardens, and labyrinth at Christ Church are lovely, as befits the rich history and frequent references to this place as the church of the du Ponts. The interior spaces are warm and inspiring. Two beautiful tracker organs — Opus 32 by John Brombaugh & Associates (1990), and the C. B. Fisk Opus 164 (2022)* — grace the main church and chapel respectively, supporting a robust and exciting music ministry.

Altar at Christ Church Christiana Hundred
Brombough Opus 32
The center pipes on Fisk Opus 164, crafted in part by our good friend Kate Harrington

Rather than highlight the beautiful architecture or music, I want to focus instead on tenants of leadership as I saw them play out that day in Wilmington. Specifically, I want to consider inclusion, servanthood, and kindness.

Robert K. Greenleaf, in his 1977 book Servant Leadership: A Journey into the Nature of Legitimate Power and Greatness, suggests that “The servant-leader is servant first. It begins with the natural feeling that one wants to serve, to serve first.” Google’s famous Project Aristotle led it to conclude that in the best teams, inclusivity matters. Members listen to one another and show sensitivity to feelings and needs. In the face of authoritarian backlash, multiple authors have seen a different path, writing that the future of leadership is kindness. These habits of servanthood, inclusion, and kindness apply to religious organizations, businesses, nonprofits, and governments.

We only met the rector of Christ Church, The Rev. Ruth Beresford, twice on that Sunday, but it was immediately clear that this was someone who understood the basics of thoughtful leadership in the 21st century.

A few examples will suffice.


Leaders have the power to make everyone feel welcome and secure, no matter how lofty their position or prestigious the event.

Christ Church could easily present a stuffy and intellectual facade to keep newcomers at arm’s length. Instead, the very first thing that happened, even before the procession, was Ruth coming to the front of the church to ask everyone to stand and introduce themselves to others. Instantly all walls crumbled between long-time parishioners and newcomers, young and old, families and singles. With a simple one-minute gesture, the church, under Ruth’s leadership, made everyone feel welcome and part of the community.


Leaders support and uplift people, giving them the opportunity to shine. Leaders create other leaders.

We saw this happen in multiple ways. In conversations with Ruth, she was quick to recognize the contributions of her staff, directing praise in their direction. We mentioned our backgrounds and she made connections both old and new, especially calling out one of our long-time friends who was a mentor to her. She followed up in a couple of notes later that week, seeking to connect us to one of her former associates. Leaders network for the benefit of their teams.


Leaders, as part of the community, don’t just consume, they contribute.

Following both the morning service and the afternoon concert, Ruth stayed until the last person left. She didn’t just take up time and space, but she contributed to those conversations, connecting on multiple levels with long-time parishioners and visitors alike.


Too many times people in positions of leadership walk into spaces and put themselves on a pedestal. They take credit for work in ways that diminishes the team. The ineffective leader doesn’t make the hard investment in the community.

I’ve seen churches, nonprofits, and nations make really bad choices for leaders, decisions that can take decades to overcome if they are ever completely addressed. True leadership is hard. Without really understanding community or organizational needs, we too often look for individuals who fit preconceived notions without giving real consideration to the abilities that matter. Many of those seeking leadership positions attempt to portray personas that fit the stereotype without internalizing the fundamental commitment to service.

Poor leadership selection has played out on our televisions this week in the comical yet very sad process of choosing a new Speaker of the House. The eventual winner seems to have had lifelong ambitions to hold the position but no true principles. The contrast with the thoughtful, empathetic, and effective leadership of Joe Biden could not be starker.

As was the case in Wilmington, one can usually spot true leaders. They are the individuals who are welcoming, uplifting, and invested in their communities. They may not fit the traditional mold of a leader, but they may have just the abilities needed.

To get the leaders we need, we only have to summon the courage to select and support thoughtful, inclusive, kind, servant leaders everywhere we can.

More to come…

DJB


*Our dear friend Kate Harrington, daughter of long-time friends Constance and Jim Harrington of Staunton, was one of the pipe builders on the Fisk organ. Her handicraft can be seen in the pictures above.


See also


Image of labyrinth at Christ Church Christiana Hundred in Wilmington, along with all other images by DJB

The books I read in December 2022

Each month my goal is to read five books on a variety of topics and from different genres. Here are the books I read in December 2022. If you click on the title, you’ll go to the longer post on More to Come. Enjoy.

Night Visions: Searching the shadows of Advent and Christmas (1998) by Jan L. Richardson is a series of daily meditations and blessings for the Advent and Christmas seasons. The author’s original artwork, reflections, poetry, and prayers accompany the reader from the beginning of Advent through Epiphany, inviting us to encounter the God who dwells in darkness as well as in daylight. Richardson writes that Advent is a season when something is on the horizon, but it is easy to miss. In her meditations, she encourages us. Stay. Sit. Linger. Tarry. Ponder. Wait. Behold. Wonder.


Christmas Stories (2021) by George Mackay Brown is a wonderful collection of seasonal short stories brought together for the first time in book form on the 100th anniversary of the Orkney writer’s birth. Mackay Brown was a writer who “attempted to capture and re-create the reality of his homeland” through religious and ritualistic themes. In love with the past, he uses his unique voice in these pieces originally commissioned for the Herald and the Tablet to bring the season to life. One Christmas in Birsay is excerpted for my Christmas Day 2022 post.


A Grief Observed (1961) by C.S. Lewis is a brief, poignant, and honest journal from the time following the death of his wife, the American poet Helen Joy Davidman. Lewis, the well-known Christian apologist and writer of the celebrated Chronicles of Narnia, works through his grief, the loss of meaning and faith, and his efforts to regain his footing in this world. It is highly personal, so much so that author Madeleine L’Engle writes in a thoughtful foreword that Lewis helped her understand that each experience of grief is unique. Still, there is a universality to it as well, as what Lewis describes feels so much like what so many have gone through in our period of mass death worldwide.


Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life (1991) by Thich Nhat Hanh shows us how to make positive use of the situations that usually pressure and antagonize us. This series of meditations, reflections, and stories from Nhat Hanh’s experiences as a peace activist, teacher, and community leader begins with simple techniques around basic human actions such as breathing, smiling, walking, and eating. But beyond dealing with basic tasks, Nhat Hanh asks us to consider how to use mindfulness for transformation, reorienting ourselves to the relationships around us.


Hidden Christmas: The Surprising Truth Behind the Birth of Christ (2016) by Timothy Keller was part of my Advent devotionals this year. Keller is a best-selling author, but he really isn’t my cup of tea. His fans find much to love about his work, but I found his approach to be moralistic. Keller spends a great deal of time telling us that we are not people who can pull ourselves together and live a moral and good life. I prefer James Alison’s look at the non-moralistic nature of Christianity.

More to come…

DJB


NOTE: To see which books I read in January, FebruaryMarch, April, MayJune, July, AugustSeptemberOctober, and November click on the links. Also check out my Ten tips for reading five books a month.


This Weekly Reader features links to recent articles, blog posts, or books that grabbed my interest or tickled my fancy. I hope you find something that makes you laugh, think, or cry. 


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A love letter to readers

Anyone who writes — whether they do it for a living or just for the hell-of-it* — appreciates those individuals who read their works. If writers say they do it for themselves and don’t care about feedback (or sales), they are probably lying.

When I write about a book on More to Come, I try to give positive feedback, highlighting the insights gleaned from these works. If I don’t find the book to be terribly helpful, I tend to follow the advice I learned from my parents: “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.”

In recent weeks I’ve been deeply touched by the positive feedback from friends and strangers alike who have sent comments or notes, usually through social media or email, concerning something I’ve written. This letter is my way of capturing a sampling of that thoughtful feedback while saying thank you to everyone who takes the time to read.


On December 20th, I posted a short piece of reflection after our twins reached their 30th birthday (Thirty years go by in the blink of an eye). On LinkedIn I added an introductory note to suggest that as we work to build our careers, it is too easy to neglect other very important pieces of our lives. Recognizing and celebrating life’s milestones is one way to ensure a healthier work-life balance.

That post brought forward a number of heartfelt comments, and a former colleague’s note really hit home.

David, its as if you were in the room with me 30 minutes ago as I sobbed about the pressure for my family to take a back seat to my work. I feel firmly about the work life balance but I was starting to second guess it today. Then your post appeared on my screen by what I suppose is just happenstance. Know that it had an impact on me at the exact perfect moment. Cheers to you, your family, and your life perspective!

I told her that getting the work-life balance right is hard and I failed many times during my career. But her note certainly brought a tear to my eye.


Yesterday I posted my annual New Year’s reflection on the rules I use for how I want to live my life (We live remarkable lives). It considers the eight rules I developed a decade ago and points toward posts that reinforce their importance.

A friend who was one of the early pioneers in expanding the reach of the International National Trusts Organisation wrote to say that he found the “we live remarkable lives” comment to be “so true.” He passed the post to a mutual friend, along with encouragement to continue blogging.

Another former colleague wrote,

I love reading your annual posts, and am reminded every year how much I agree with your eight rules — particularly the reminder to live with gratitude, and to move six days of the week. Mental and physical health are essential to living well in other parts of your life. Thanks for sharing!

This comment pleased me immensely…and not only because she agrees with my life rules! Another friend told of how he contrived “Four F’s” for his life: Family, Faith, Finances, Fun, and later added Friends and Fitness. 

Among the most moving was a friend who wrote to say this writing touched her after a “humdinger of a holiday season.” Her health — ironclad for 55 years — suddenly took a difficult turn, with surgery this week and treatment that was to begin later this month. She ended by noting that she was grateful and thankful. I am also grateful and thankful — more than she can ever know — for her note and our friendship.


When I posted my annual list of the books I read (The 2022 year-end reading list) on LinkedIn and Candice’s Facebook page**, I asked readers to suggest the best, most memorable, or most surprising book they read during 2022. The response was immediate and wide-ranging. Here are the more than 35 titles (and counting) my readers suggested, in alphabetical order:


These examples don’t account for the regular conversations I have with a range of individuals: a retired psychologist, priests, writers, mentors, a development professional and rabid reader, a former Division Director at NEH, professors, editors, a book publisher, Candice’s childhood friends, my childhood friends, former colleagues, current clients, a retired conservationist from the Getty, a Main Street enthusiast, recipients of my monthly email newsletters.

You all enrich my life with your thoughts and feedback. I can’t thank you enough. But I’ll keep trying.

More to come…

DJB


*If you haven’t noticed, I fall into the latter category.


**See Farewell Facebook and Five reasons I’m not on Twitter for an explanation.


Image by Mar from Pixabay

We live remarkable lives

Poet and essayist Jane Hirshfield suggests that “our human task” is to acknowledge “the fullness of things.”

Kathryn Schulz delves into this mystery by observing that the world “is full of beauty and grandeur and also wretchedness and suffering; we know that people are kind and funny and brilliant and brave and also petty and irritating and horrifically cruel. We live remarkable lives,” she writes, “because life itself is remarkable.” She counts her days as exceptional even when they are ordinary.

Philip Roth describes it as “Life is and.”

Acknowledgment of the fullness of life has been on my mind as we enter 2023.

The New Year is a time when many begin thinking of resolutions, perhaps focused on personal ways to respond to our current reality. Since 2013, I have taken a different route. That year I established several rules of how I want to live day-to-day. Rules for the road of life, if you will.

Computer wallpaper with DJB’s life rules

They came as the result of a more intentional focus on life’s journey rather than relying on a changing list of resolutions to respond to the challenges of the moment. These personal guidelines are not quite principles but rather serve as reminders of how I want to live over time.

Here are eight stories from the last twelve months of More to Come that acknowledge the fullness of life in the context of my personal rules. They are given to provide hope in the remarkable nature of life, even in the midst of trying, liminal times.


Helping hands (photo credit: James Chan from Pixabay)

Rule #1. Be grateful. Be thankful. Be compassionate. Every day.

Rule #1 is first for a reason. Gratitude requires intentionality and it encourages everyday action, not just when things are going well.

In An attitude of gratitude (November 24th), Richard Rohr suggests that a pre-existent attitude of gratitude is necessary in order to be thankful in difficult times. It takes a deliberate choice of love over fear, a desire to be positive instead of negative. If we are not “radically grateful” every day, Rohr writes, resentment always takes over. Fighting the impulse to see the world in the worst way takes effort. Every single day.


Rule #2. Exercise six days a week for the rest of your life. 

My main form of exercise is daily walking, and I’m trying to walk “at the speed of life,” as noted in The mindfulness of breath and steps (January 24th). When we run, it is easy to stay hidden. Walking at the speed of life helps us know ourselves, know others, and be known by others.


Rule #3. Listen more than you talk.

This is a rule I break frequently. When that happens, I am poorer for the experience.

One way I have listened this year is in reading books from writers with very different perspectives than mine. Listening to new voices (October 5th) captures one of the ways I was opened to new ways of thinking.


Rule #4. Spend less than you make. 

I am coming to understand the varied roles money plays in our lives. In We have nothing to lose but our illusions (June 4th), I came face-to-face with the compelling arguments of philosopher and historian Matthew Stewart. Many of us who comprise the top 9.9% of the population in terms of wealth are doing many things to entrench inequality in our system. Instead of government by oligarchs, collective action through a democratically elected government has been and must remain an indispensable tool in advancing the cause of equal justice.


Rule #5. Quit eating crap! Eat less of everything else. 

I like food. Not in the way that Justice Brett “I like beer” Kavanaugh likes his drink of choice, but I do have a challenge with occasionally eating too much.

However, this rule has come to mean more to me than just “watch your calories.” Thanks to Christopher Carter‘s book that I reviewed in Race, faith, and food justice (November 16th), I’ve begun thinking about this life rule in terms of our broken food production system. Until now, my thinking has only touched the surface of the problem, and seldom in ways that reach across racial and class lines to address systemic issues.


Running Dog Guitar Ought-3
My Running Dog Guitar Ought-3 (photo credit: Running Dog Guitars)

Rule #6. Play music.

The Fretboard Journal has been a part of my life since 2005. In those 17 years I’ve come to appreciate that when that simple white protective mailer shows up in the mailbox, it opens up my musical world. I celebrated the 50th issue of this gem of a magazine in Our little universe (July 2nd) in part because every time an issue arrives, I’m inspired to pick up one of my instruments and play.


Rule #7. Connect and commit. 

Every morning I walk by one of our community’s strangest memorials: a bust of a street-dependent person, Norman Lane, who lived from 1911 to 1987 and spent the last 25 years of his life in downtown Silver Spring. The plaque below the bust is entitled Remember the loving kindhearted forbearance of the people of Silver Spring. I used a phrase from that remembrance — An odd-shaped piece that never quite fit into society’s jigsaw puzzle (September 12th) — to consider the nature of connection, commitment, and forbearance.


Rule #8. Don’t be a grumpy old man. Enjoy life! 

Our year in photos — 2022 (November 21st) hopefully conveys the joy and wonderment I’m experiencing at this stage of life. I am working to live into Kathryn Schulz’s admonition that each day is exceptional. We truly live remarkable lives … because life itself is remarkable.

Best wishes for a wonder-filled and remarkable 2023. As you welcome the New Year, please be grateful, thankful, and compassionate every day.

More to come…

DJB

Image of rainbow by Cindy Lever from Pixabay

Observations from … December 2022

A summary of what was included on More to Come in the month of December 2022. If you receive my monthly email update, you can skip this post.

As winter settles in I’m sending holiday greetings and best wishes for a 2023 full of joy and wonder. I also want to say thanks for reading these monthly emails and sampling the eclectic mix of observations that make up More to Come. I so enjoy the comments and conversations that come from so many of you.

There was a lot on my mind in December, so let’s jump in.


TOP READER VIEWS

Two posts in December outpaced all others in terms of reader views. The first was a short piece from December 20th to celebrate the 30th birthday of our twins. Thirty years goes by in the blink of an eye, with its call to celebrate the amazement of our lives and to savor every moment, resonated with so many of you. In a similar vein, Embrace the liminality in lifemy review of Kathryn Schulz’s tender and searching memoir Lost & Found ― also struck a chord with a number of readers. Schulz ends this generous and perceptive work by noting that disappearance reminds us to notice, transience to cherish, fragility to defend. “We are here to keep watch, not to keep.”


TIME OF YEAR FOR THE “BEST OF 2022” LISTS

December is when many newspapers, magazines, and online newsletters try and capture the year that is quickly passing with “best of” lists. More to Come is no exception. I went back to the reader view stats and came up with the following from this year:

  • Best of the blog: Top ten posts of 2022 is a look at the top ten reader favorites from the past year. There are posts covering travels, books, places that matter, and family included in this look at what tickled your fancy.
  • The Saturday Soundtrack 2022 top ten highlighted the top music posts from the year, which ranged from The Beatles to spooky Halloween favorites, from Joni Mitchell to a grunge rocker covering a roots musician’s song about Lincoln’s assassination. (That last one’s weird, IKR!)

THE WORLD GOES ON

Because of the times we live in, the holiday season didn’t stop the news. While there were many important events taking place around the world, I focused on two of the more historic moments.

  • Gratitude to Ukraine was an essay written after a speech to a joint meeting of Congress by Ukraine’s President Volodymyr Zelenskyy. I referenced distinguished historian Timothy Snyder‘s piece on gratitude for what Ukraine has done to put the speech in context. Zelenskyy cited American history ― the Battle of Saratoga, Pearl Harbor, and the Battle of the Bulge ― to point to similarities in our stories. Most importantly, President Zelenskyy reminded Americans of who we say we are, and why that matters to the world.
  • Earlier in December, I wrote about Senator Raphael Warnock’s historic election in Georgia in Get up. Get dressed. Put your shoes on. Get ready. “Because we always have a path to make our country greater, against unspeakable odds, here we stand together,” Senator Warnock said on election night, as he spoke truth to America. Warnock is a Baptist minister, and his speeches are mini-sermons on the importance of democracy and every person getting a vote: “I believe that democracy is the political enactment of a spiritual idea. The notion that each of us has within us a spark of the divine…We all have value. And if we have value, we ought to have a voice.”

BOOKS, BOOKS, AND MORE BOOKS

I touched on the work of a number of authors in December.

  • In the realm of love was my review of C.S. Lewis’s A Grief Observed. Author Madeleine L’Engle writes in a thoughtful foreword that Lewis helped her understand that each experience of grief is unique. Still, there is a universality to it as well, as what Lewis describes feels so much like what so many have gone through in our recent period of mass death worldwide.
  • Looking for life in the winter shadows was an Advent-focused post that examined works by Jan Richardson and Timothy Keller. I found the former better than the latter.  Finally, my Christmas greeting this year ― sent your way on Christmas morning as Happy Christmas!   ― was an excerpt from Orkney writer George Mackay Brown’s Christmas Stories. I discovered Mackay Brown during our tour of Scotland and Norway this past spring, and his place-based seasonal stories showcased the power of his writing and the richness of the landscape that inspired his storytelling.

Three posts during the month were of the “making a list” variety:


AND LET’S END WITH SOME MUSIC

In addition to the top ten listing above, there were three Saturday Soundtrack essays for December. On the 3rd I wrote Celebrating Paul McCartney, building off an essay by an English writer who provided 64 reasons that the famous Beatle is so important. Don’t worry, I only highlight a handful. Then A gift of new favorites for 2022 was a look at a few of the new artists I’ve discovered in the past two years. Finally, Musical gifts for Yuletide takes a look at how some acoustic and roots musicians celebrate the season.


CONCLUSION

In these liminal times, remember to treat others with kindness, undertake some mindful walking every day, recognize the incredible privilege that most of us have, and think about how to put that privilege to use for good. Women, people of color, LGBTQ individuals, immigrants, and others can feel especially vulnerable…because they are. Finally, work hard for justice and democracy because the fight never ends.

More to come…

DJB


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